Here are the Asiatic pot lilies in the ATP data base:
http://garden.org/plants/searc...
And here are the Oriental pot lilies; Oriental lilies typically are fragrant:
http://garden.org/plants/searc...
Most of these are described as 20 inches or less in height. A few may be a bit taller. Lots to choose from! I would say that if you prefer taller lilies (3 ft+) you should use larger pots, both for balance of form and again for stability. Some of the tall lilies can get pretty heavy when in full bloom!