No no no no no no! You don't understand! You must have missed out on DH Training 101. Whatever is wrong, it's all his fault. If there are rocks where you want flowers, it's all his fault. And it's his responsibility to take care of it (assuming you have made him feel thoroughly guilty by vainly and heroically trying to deal with it yourself.. ) Sheesh, I can see I can't let you anywhere near my sweetie! (He's well trained! )
Confidence is that feeling you have right before you do something really stupid.