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Sep 12, 2022 4:50 AM CST
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Name: Ed
South Alabama (Zone 8b)
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It's been a long time since I've been here, but the Vegetable and Fruit forum was basically where I hung out. I've never been accused of being PC, so I'm posting this here. I know there's lots of good people here, many of you fellow Christians.

I'm asking for prayer for my wife, Gena. We found out July 10 that she had a mass on her left lung. She is the health conscious one, unlike me. She would walk 3-4 miles several times a week and exercise regularly. We are both ex-smokers...having quit some 16 years ago. Since finding the mass, through CT, biopsy, PET scan, etc., she has been diagnosed with stage 2 lung cancer. The cancer is non-small-cell and is in her left lung in both lobes. The PET scan did not detect cancer elsewhere. We head out this morning to the University of Alabama at Birmingham Hospital to meet with a surgeon. General prayer is much desired for her. Specific prayer would be that the surgeon believe he can remove the lung/cancer and that he deems Gena able to physically handle living with one lung. I believe she can handle having only one lung, she is a strong and feisty 4'10" tall lady. She's a devout Christian, *very* active in our church and in our local jail ministry...she has a love for anyone she meets but her heart especially is tender for children. Please pray for her comfort, peace, healing, and God's presence throughout the journey ahead of her and me. Thank you so much. Ed
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Sep 12, 2022 5:44 AM CST
Name: Kristi
east Texas pineywoods (Zone 8a)
Herbs Region: Texas Vegetable Grower Avid Green Pages Reviewer Garden Ideas: Level 2
Prayers for your wife (and you) as you both travel through these challenges. Many doctors we dealt with over the years also believe in the power of prayer. Do ask them as well. Keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers.
Believe in yourself even when no one else will. ~ Sasquatch
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Sep 12, 2022 7:43 AM CST
Missouri (Zone 6b)
I wondered what was going on and how you're doing. Prayers for your wife.
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Sep 12, 2022 9:00 AM CST
Name: Rj
Just S of the twin cities of M (Zone 4b)
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Thoughts with your wife and you.

The Mayo in Jax is close and MD Anderson in TX is a good site.
As Yogi Berra said, โ€œIt's tough to make predictions, especially about the future.โ€
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Sep 12, 2022 8:12 PM CST
Name: Gigi AdeniumPlumeria
Florida (Zone 9b)
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Region: Florida Container Gardener Garden Photography Cactus and Succulents Butterflies Garden Ideas: Level 1
We'll be including Gena and you in our nightly prayers Ed ๐Ÿ™ Group hug May God put his healing hands on her so she will be healed! ๐Ÿ™
ยฉby Gigi Adenium Plumeria "Gardening is my favorite pastime. I grow whatever plant that catches my attention. I also enjoy hand pollinating desert roses.โ€
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Sep 12, 2022 8:32 PM CST
Name: Arlene
Southold, Long Island, NY (Zone 7a)
Region: Ukraine Dahlias I was one of the first 300 contributors to the plant database! Houseplants Tomato Heads Garden Ideas: Level 1
Plant Identifier Photo Contest Winner: 2014 Million Pollinator Garden Challenge Celebrating Gardening: 2015
Prayers and good wishes for you and your wife.
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Sep 12, 2022 9:01 PM CST
Name: Nora
Castlegar, B. C. Canada (Zone 5b)
Birds Region: United Kingdom Salvias Roses Organic Gardener Irises
Echinacea Daylilies Cat Lover Region: Canadian Garden Photography Butterflies
Prayers go out to your wife, and to you, Ed.

Keep focused and keep loving each other.

All the best. Group hug
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Sep 12, 2022 9:14 PM CST
PNW/SW WA State (Zone 8b)
Sending prayers!
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Sep 12, 2022 9:40 PM CST
Name: Johannian
The Black Hills, SD (Zone 4b)
2Thes. 3:3
Cactus and Succulents Orchids Garden Research Contributor Sempervivums Vermiculture Garden Ideas: Level 1
I'm so sorry to hear of this. I will be praying for you, Ed. Group hug I hope and pray that no matter what happens, you will find comfort in God and His Word. At times, it seems that's the only way we can find comfort:
Trust in the Lord forever, for in God the Lord, we have an everlasting Rock. (Isaiah 26:4)

On a brighter note, I'm positive your wife's good, healthy habits will not make it worse. Good habits will never come back to haunt you!

Wishing you and your wife the best,
Johannian
โ€œHonorable is the one who prudently avoids danger (provided he does not compromise himself).โ€ -Sir Thomas More
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Sep 12, 2022 10:00 PM CST
Name: Kat
Magnolia, Tx (Zone 9a)
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She has my prayers, as do you also. You have my thoughts as well, and every wish for good news. May the Lord keep and hear you.
So many roads to take, choices to make, and laughs to share!
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Sep 13, 2022 5:52 AM CST
Name: Sally
central Maryland (Zone 7b)
See you in the funny papers!
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Ed and Gena Group hug
Plant it and they will come.
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Sep 14, 2022 8:44 AM CST
Name: stone
near Macon Georgia (USA) (Zone 8a)
Garden Sages Million Pollinator Garden Challenge Plant Identifier
All that trouble of quitting and having to live without... Not Fair!!

Best wishes and luck with the Dr... Thanks for the update...

Please keep us posted.

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I used to know someone that got a double lung transplant...She used to complain that she wanted a cigarette so bad that she could eat it...

I know the feeling...
Ex smoker here too.
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Sep 14, 2022 1:12 PM CST
Name: Sandy B.
Ford River Twp, Michigan UP (Zone 4b)
(Zone 4b-maybe 5a)
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Ed, I was so very sorry to hear that the two of you are dealing with such a serious illness. Sending positive thoughts for strength and healing, and the best medical care, to help get you both through this ordeal. Group hug
โ€œThink occasionally of the suffering of which you spare yourself the sight." ~ Albert Schweitzer
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Sep 14, 2022 2:58 PM CST
Name: tarev
San Joaquin County, CA (Zone 9b)
Give PEACE a chance!
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Prayers for your wife's recovery and better outcomes ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’ž Group hug
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Sep 15, 2022 7:00 AM CST
Thread OP
Name: Ed
South Alabama (Zone 8b)
Beekeeper Vegetable Grower Enjoys or suffers hot summers Seed Starter Region: Alabama Garden Procrastinator
Container Gardener Butterflies Birds Bee Lover Zinnias
Thank you all for your prayers and well wishes. They mean a lot to us. Ed
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Sep 16, 2022 9:51 AM CST
Name: Rita
North Shore, Long Island, NY
Zone 6B
Charter ATP Member Seed Starter Tomato Heads I was one of the first 300 contributors to the plant database! Vegetable Grower Lover of wildlife (Raccoon badge)
Birds Garden Ideas: Master Level Butterflies Celebrating Gardening: 2015 Roses Photo Contest Winner: 2016
Oh Ed. I just saw this thread. Many prayers for you wife and all well wishes.
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Sep 17, 2022 10:03 AM CST

Ed and Gena: My prayers are with you for comfort and peace throughout this ordeal and for a return to wholeness after treatment. God bless you both.
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Sep 17, 2022 1:35 PM CST
PA (Zone 6a)
Dear Gena and Ed,
We have an awesome, wonderful God, Who loves us dearly, and Who has promised to NEVER leave us or forsake us, and to actually work ALL things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. I pray that both of you will sense His presence more strongly than you ever have in your lives. I pray for His healing touch on Gena's body, and for Godly wisdom and direction for the doctors and the 2 of you. He is your refuge, your shelter, your fortress, your high tower.
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Sep 17, 2022 6:03 PM CST
Name: Janie
North Texas (Zone 8b)
Plants, birds & butterflies feed me
Butterflies Region: Texas Birds
Ed, I am glad you posted this. Your wife sounds like a wonderful lady. Prayers for both of you! ๐Ÿ™
โ€œ There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.โ€ โ€” Albert Einstein
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Sep 17, 2022 10:55 PM CST
Name: Karla
Huntington Beach CA
Dear Ed,
Your post for prayer for your dear wife Gena and all of the loving responses are far more beautiful than the flower and plant photos posted in this newsletter - and those photos are gorgeous! I will pray for you and Gena as you travel this path and will say prayers of thanksgiving that you know Jesus holds you in His loving hands. (I knew I found a good thing when I stumbled across this newsletter!)

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