MindiHammerstone said:Hermรจs,
Iam sorry that you are so bummed out. Gardening does take a lot of time and maintenance. And an over the seas trip could put a dampener on it.
I wish you all the best!!
Mindi
Gardening is either an obsession or it isn't. You can buy flowers for the house cheaper. You can buy veggies at the store cheaper (not that they taste as good). But in some ways, it is the difference between planting something and seeing it grow, picking tomatoes off your own vine or corn from the stalk or fresh beans . It is a choice, not a requirement for most people.
Or you can go on amusement park rides, go fishing, play golf, or watch the newest movie. There is nothing wrong with those either.
My choice is gardening. I LIKE having dirt under my fingernails, I enjoy seeing the earthworms come to the surface when I dig and then carefully return below. I like eating things the local grocery store does not sell... Italian flat beans, purple cauliflower, really red lettuce... I even like worrying about the weather! Has it been 3 days since it rained? Are the corns tasseling yet? Are there hornworms on the tomatoes? Is that pepper ripe yet?
People talk about whether the tomato of corn is ripe, but it applies to other smaller crops as well. Have you ever tasted a ripe carrot or beet? There is more to them than you will ever learn from a grocery store one. A non-commercial variety of carrot is sweeter than you might ever realize if you don't grow one yourself. And CELERY, OMG! What you get from the store is a fat watery nothing. Real celery is spicy and tasty. Especially the leaves.
Or grow a small planter box of endive lettuce and one of basil. Add a few of THOSE to a salad and you will get a pleasant surprise!
It takes some effort, but I enjoy the results. I read once that, if you like bacon, you have to get down in the mud and keep the pigs happy. Veggies are like that.
But if that is more work than you want to give, don't. Golf is fun too.
It just depends on what you enjoy.