Your "defense" of Silver Maples is admirable and I can say without hesitation I have seen several enormous and beautiful specimens in the St. Louis area. Out here on the Great Plains, where "wind is relentless", rain is sporadic and the clay soil and water supply is alkaline... these four trees are considered "trash" trees. The benefit derived from rapid growth is more than offset by the aggressive, invasive root system and weak wood that topples in our ice and wind and rain storms.
I cannot agree with you enough that Lawton is a rough town to be avoided if possible. To be fair -- I had a doctor from Lawton as a client for several years and he had a magnificent garden on his acre of land. The number of varieties of plants he grew was daunting.
I'm perfectly comfortable with my record on those four trees. Without "strong arming" a single customer I sold them a lot of Oaks, Ginkgo, 'Oklahoma' Redbud, 'Texas' Whitebud, Japanese Maples, Sargent Crabapple, 'Prairiefire' Crabapple, Japanese Black Pine, Bosnian Redcone Pine, Weeping Alaskan Cypress, Cedar of Lebanon, Paperbark Maple, River Birch, Bald Cypress, 'Golden Rey' Lacebark Elm, Dogwood... We regularly carried over one hundred varieties of trees...
Best wishes living in Missouri... it is a lush and green state. When in Saint Louis please visit the Missouri Botanical Garden... it is magnificent!!!