@ohiodirtdigger Sorry you missed the chance to cross with your lemon lily. From what I can see it does look like
H. lilio-asphodelus but I wouldn't consider that a positive ID, ok?
If it is, you'll find when it starts flowering again that it tends to be nocturnal - the flowers begin opening in the evening or the night before it will be open. Then it stays open 24 hours, closing about when the new ones are opening. This gives a fairly long window for crossing it, but if it's not protected as soon as it opens, it could get pollinated by a visitor.
The pollen needs to be collected as soon as the flower starts to open, to get it before critters or dew or rain.
You can pluck out the anthers, lay them on a napkin indoors, and let them dry. You can collect and store the pollen if you want. I've found pollen usable up to a week, almost always for 3 days, just leaving it on the dry anthers on the napkin (in an air conditioned house).
Pat