@Lyshack Tim everyone can learn from discussion.
You have provided sources for sites that mention daylilies as xeric or water-friendly perennials. Two of the sites are associated with universities. However, none of the sites actually provide any evidence that daylilies are "xeric" or water-friendly. They simply list them as being so. Anyone can list something as being so. Simply listing it, no matter what the site or "authority" provides no reason to accept the statement.
We would need to find authoritative objective evidence that daylilies are xeric. That usually means published research. It also means that we would need to agree on what should be classified as "xeric".
To check that daylilies are adapted to moist conditions I checked published research on H. dumortierii. It tends to be naturally associated with moors and other moist locations. We can assume that it is adapted to those conditions. That it may be able to survive adverse conditions does not suggest that it is adapted to such conditions, other than to survive them. To be "xeric" I expect a plant that not only survives but thrives under low water conditions. Plants are adapted to survive some adverse conditions by avoiding them. They stop growing, lose their leaves, do not try to flower, etc. Tulips and daffodils are listed as "xeric" plants. But they avoid drought conditions by being dormant at those times. To be classified as "xeric" they would need to grow and develop normally when low water conditions occur at the time that they flower.
I consider that a plant is "xeric" if it thrives under low water conditions - that is, it grows, flowers, etc. without any added water - only what is provided naturally by the weather. The daylilies in my field do not do that. They may survive the occasional drought but they abort their scapes, drop their buds, etc. They are not xeric plants in my opinion and I have not seen any evidence that suggests that daylilies in general are capable of thriving under low natural moisture conditions. On the other hand, daylilies thrive and flower when grown in "water beds". They grow well and flower when in our pond. Are daylilies able to respond to drought periods to minimize damage and survive? Yes, but I do not consider that makes them xeric plants.