Thank you so much for your kind reply.
I have a few oleanders (planted by the previous owner; I absolutely detest them) and they are always covered in aphids this time of the year. They are very easy to spot as they are bright orange and the Buddlejas are the only other plants to get them.
No problems with spider mites here luckily, unlike my old place.
Wisteria Lane went into the ground this Spring and seems to be doing great. I haven't watered it in over a week (it rained on Sunday) and has some straw mulching and is absolutely fine. It does attract butterflies but no bumblebees. I don't know if it because a very young plant but it doesn't look anywhere like the pictures on the Internet.
I'll give some consideration to pulling out the worst affected plants and replacing them next Spring: have you got any experience with Black Knight and Camberwell Beauty?
Thanks again.