What you could try is... Cut your folliage in half, water the plants roots extremely well, and start spraying the plant with hydrogen peroxide 3% mixed with water. Use a ratio of around 10 % hydrogen peroxide to water, it does not need to be precise. Do that about every 4 days. Let the mixture run between the fans, and get the undersides. That will start to kill off the active rust. Before shipping do one of two things. Either give the plants a bath in hydrogen peroxide, or dish soap water. For hydrogen peroxide up the quantity to 25 percent hydrogen peroxide with water. Dish soap and some baking soda, skip the oil, and follow an internet recipe. This will greatly reduce the possibility of a problem.
And I am sure you are letting your friends know that you had rust, so they can decline your offer. Otherwise there might be a southern grower, who thinks they can work with the plants. I would not just destroy them. I was given two rusty plants kept them two hundred feet away from my other plants. I kept washing them, pulling folliage off, they went heat dormant. It is true new rust does not develop here in temperatures over 86 degrees. Washed them as new folliage came up, they never redeveloped rust.
Many blessings for your success!