thank you for the help and the welcome! I looked up foxglove and it seems to be a little more fuzzy .. the one I found also has smooth edges. I think this may be one that I have to wait and see!
thank you both! someone suggested borage and comfrey popped up as I was looking at photos, and I was kinda leaning that way. now with the input I'm thinking it definitely belongs in the borage family. I really appreciate the help!