Well if the meltdown is associated with winter rain, then go up on the amount of aggregate in the mix, increase the exposure (if possible) or find a spot under cover (if necessary), even if only for a few days a year.
The database has this plant as hardy to zone 10a.
Pencil Cactus (Euphorbia tirucalli 'Firesticks')
If that's accurate, you are just over the line and the coldest nights of the year may present a threat, especially when combined with rainfall (or recent rainfall). It might actually be the cold that is bringing your plants down, but cold and wet presents a greater danger. If that is relevant here, then you will want to seek out the warmer microclimates on the premises. Maybe right next to the house under the eaves on a south facing side? I have little experience with cold, just trying to think through the possibilities. I guess the timing of the loss would be informative about the reason it happened.
We have the same seasonal rainfall pattern as you (70% of our rainfall comes from Dec-Mar) but get about half as much total (about 10 inches in an average year, though the total may vary 3-4 fold from year to year). This is not a problem for this Euphorbia or most succulent Euphorbias that I've tried.
For the last 10 years or so my mix has consisted of 50% pumice, 25% cocofiber (coir), 25% generic bagged compost from my local nursery. Most mixes contain peat instead of coir. Ideally the compost should be something relatively gritty or chunky (not fine like powder). I would think composted bark would be the ideal product given its texture and durability. Avoid coir that is overly fine, as well.