Zuzu, It is so sad to hear about the damage that mother nature wreaked in California. I know it must have been extremely stressful and I am so glad that you are okay and that your home is intact after the horrible weather.
I hope your neighbor will shoulder some of the financial responsibility for the damage done to your arbor, fence, etc. It sounds like you were dealt a double whammy with his tree crew destroying part of your garden in the process of trimming and cleaning up the tree debris!
Here on the east coast I always dread heading into summer because of the threat of hurricanes and the awful destruction that the winds can cause.
I always wish that I could have a second home to escape to, somewhere far away, somewhere that doesn't have the threat of hurricanes, earthquakes, tornadoes, floods, etc. but I know that no place is exempt from bad weather.
I'm just glad to hear that you are okay and that your home wasn't seriously damaged.