Good advice!
Why getting hung up on one sickly, make that dead Phal, when there are hundreds of healthy ones out there in addition to other, easier to grow and to flower Orchids.
If I would give up every time an Orchid died on me, I would never grow Orchids. As a matter of fact, we all learn something every time an Orchid joins the compost pile. You learn to provide better conditions, or perhaps you learn that a particular Orchid is simply not suited for your growing conditions. I will not grow Masdevallias, no matter how gorgeous they are. In time one will hopefully do better?
I would fight to keep a very rare and special Orchid alive and that Phal I fight for, is better be very special for whatever reason!