I really do not like construction sand..I would much prefer to use pumice or perlite. Sand has a tendency to compact in the container.
We all have varying preferences, what works for me is using cacti mix, compost, pumice, perlite, akadama, kanuma, and top dressing with chicken grit (insoluble crushed granite). If I do not have kanuma or akadama, then it will be cacti mix, compost, pumice/perlite. Can't tell you my percentages, I just eyeball it, as I mix them all in very well. I use shallow and wide container rather than too deep and big, will really depend on the size and rootball of your plant.