My neighbor next door to me is a snot. I really don't know what her problem is, but the neighbor on the other side of me said she is like that to everyone and always has been. I have not did anything but be nice to her, went out of my way to be nice to her and she just ignores me. One time I waved at her while she was in her yard and I was pulling out of the driveway. She clearly seen me, was looking right at me, but turned her head around and ignored me. She has a daughter the same age as my girls and we both homeschool. They bought her a birthday gift and invited her over shortly after we moved in. I have sent her Christmas cards ect. Finally gave up.
So now. They have a mama cat and she has 8 babies-4 months old or thereabouts. One kitten disappeared. Either a family member took it home or an owl got it? its gone.
The others are in my yard alot, pooping in my flowers, tripping me. They do bug me sometimes wanting petted when I am trying to work and I am allergic so I usually just go let my poodle out and he dispatches them in short order. I do my best to keep my poodles in our yard. (partially concerned about their place being a danger, junky, maybe traps out for critters? possibly poisoned critters before)
These cats will be here until they have babies and the babies have babies and they don't do anything w them
None of them are spayed, or neutered, They are crawling with fleas, their ears are full of blackish goo from ear mites, one of them came up on my porch and puked up a wad of worms
I just feel so bad for them. Plus I don't want them. If I wanted 10 cats, I'd go get me some!
I don't care if my neighbor has an elephant if she keeps it on her side AND takes care of it.
One day while I was out watering my garden, the cats were all in my yard as they do when I am out there, and another neighbor up the street from me stopped. She said she had seen the cats out alot and wanted to know if they were mine and if she could have the mama cat. I told her the story. She says the mama crosses the busy highway to go to her house and she feeds it-alot and often. She was afraid to keep her because she was nursing. I told her to take them all
She comes by and puts a bowl of feed in their shed for the cats. She doesn't want the mama to keep crossing the road afraid she will be hit by a car but she is so scrawny we don't think she is getting enough to eat. She said she was contacting some rescue groups, but they were too full or wanted $25 fee for ea one, ect. Haven't found anyone to help. But still working on that.
So the neighbor does not know anything about the other neighbor that is feeding them. I feed them scraps (not catfood) and only in MY yard. I figure if they want to come over to my yard and eat, nothing is stopping them. They don't keep them at home where they belong anyway.
I was out in my garden this morning and she found the bowl of feed that the other person left in her shed. She threw it out and was clearly steamed. I am certain that she thinks *I* was the one who has been in her shed. She closed the shed door up tight (has never kept it closed the past 4 years we have been here). There is nothing but junk in it anyway
Clearly if she has half a brain she realizes that no one is out to steal her trashy junk, and just trying to feed the cats. No harm.
This past easter they brought home 3 ducklings, killed 2 of them off in first few weeks. And then the other poor thing sat in a 30x40 dog crate with a tiny pan of filthy water up until 2 wks ago. It got so bad, that I was furious. I was out in my yard one night and I heard the strangest sound, couldn't figure out what it was. And then realized it was the duck, he was crying. Seriously. It was the sadest little sound I have ever heard. It really disturbed me. (ok I know ya'all are thinking I am a nutcase about now
) I went over and talked to him and he seemed to listen intently. He seemed pleased with that. The poor thing was just so lonely. How can anyone be like to an animal? You have to be a real piece of work to be so cruel. What was their plan for the duck anyway? just let it sit there til it grew old and died?
I can't say what I really think about people like that cause it's not sanctified and I would go to the bad place
Well the next night I went after dark and said good night to him and he chatted away at me with his little sounds and seemed pleased that I had paid an attention to him. I got up the next day and on my way to my shed I thought he was acting strangely. Finally decided that he was just scratching. Later in the morning, I heard a gun shot and of course went right out to see what was going on and the neighbor's son had shot the duck. It was flopping around all over the ground (guess couldn't hit the broad side of a barn. Who would do that anyway? I would have just got an axe and lopped it's head off, more humane that way. maybe he's a weenie?) Anyway I believe he shot it again, and it did finally die. I actually cried. Now mind you, I do cry when I am saddened by something, but mostly if you see me crying you better run lol because I am ANGRY. I cry when I am angry. (I hate that I do, but I can't help it). The weenie told me that the duck had a big gash on it's underside and couldn't stand up and there wasn't anything they could do for it. The only way it could have been cut is if the wire of the cage cut it. NOTHING could get inside that the way they had it wrapped and tie wrapped closed like they did.
Well at least he was happy the night before when I talked to him.
OK so I am pretty furious about the duck. What kind of idiot brings home ducklings as an Easter novelty for their grand-kids and then what?! They had no plan to care for it? That's like bringing home a puppy. Well, they don't stay a puppy, duh.
Ok so that is my rant, and I don't know what to do, or should i do anything at all? I don't even care what she thinks about me, honestly, there is no love lost, its not like she even likes me. I just don't want the cats to be full of fleas, mites, worms and pregnant all the time and hungry and pooping in my yard. And I either want the other neighbor to take them or not and go away. And I don't want the neighbor to think I am the one that has been in her shed. And the other neighbor is just trying to help but it is making things worse. What to DO?