My Mom had a cousin...my Step-dad couldn't stand him...well, Wendel was kind of a pain..
The last time she saw him was when they were out in his boat off Marina del Rey and it sank and they had to swim for shore...lol..my step-dad said, "That's it." and they never saw him again....lol.
I had quite a time trying to track him down when my Mom died, just to let him know.
No, I have to have full confidence in someone before I will put my fate in their hands. Jer has always been an excellent, excellent driver and I've noticed in the last year that he gets distracted sometimes now and now I feel that I have to put my full attention on the road while he's driving. I don't have that 'no worries' feeling any longer.Trust my own driving more. There's nothing worse than saying, Okay I'll ride with you and then finding, OMG! this is the world's worst driver.