What an appropriate forum for a buzz-kill!!!!!!!
Three cheers to Spring Hill Nurseries for letting me switch this out for a limelight hydrangea; and three cheers to Jung, because although neither butterfly bush nor burning bush is outlawed in NY State, it's on their wishlist to do so, and I had six of them on order from Jung that they let me cancel.
Thanks for telling me mellie, but I kind of get the feeling you enjoyed doing so more than you should have !