Ursula has given you wonderful advice. There is nothing more for me to add, except not to sell yourself short.
As she said there are wonderful stickies and threads in our forums offering detailed information on how to grow Phalaenopsis. Read them, follow the advice, success will follow.
Do not seek advice from your husband or from anyone else on how to grow them. Orchids are not like other plants that you may have tried to grow before. But they ARE NOT hard to grow. Only take advice from orchid growers.
Ursula has provided the path to success! All you have to do is follow it. We look forward to hearing from you again and welcome to our happy little group!
