Poly, I think you may like flaring falls more than you may realize. For example, Daughter of Stars is one listed in the database as having flaring falls. I had it, too, but I am one of the many unfortunates who failed to keep it alive.
It seems that only a small percentage of irises with flaring falls are listed as such in the database. I'm thinking of Alien Mist, Awesome Alex, Conjuration, Destined to Dance, and Forever Orange, all from your "Have" list, Poly.
You have a beautiful selection of "Haves," including some with what I would consider flared falls, even if they aren't listed that way in the database.
Here's what I think: flared falls that are narrow look awkward, but flared falls that are wide enough to touch or slightly overlap each other at their bases look great. That's just my own personal opinion. So there are flared falls, and then there are flared falls.
