Joy, that is absolutely beautiful. I tried my hand at cottage gardening, but didn't achieve close to what you have.
I'd like to know what a plant is... in your second photo, just to the left of the lavender phlox, in between it and the white and peach flowers (dahlias?) in the center of the photo is an interesting plant.... I love things with tall spiky blooms mixed with daylilies, and the color looks like a rosy lavender purple.... it is just down from the center of the photo.