Guess it's all in the eyes of the beholder! As frustrated as I get at the starlings and grackles, they are just doing what they do. I just hold the suet until they leave. Oh....and I LOVE bluejays too!!
I hate losing plants....I know they are "just plants" but when you nurse them along and baby them and get them to grow, bloom, and be pretty and they die....it's like losing a friend.....
