Hi Gita, thanks for your thoughts. I spoke to Michael and he said my humidity in the house is just too low, so I am misting now and I think many of the plants will be going to the GH as soon as the weather settles. I have NEVER had a problem like this before this winter and I honestly think it was the different changes mostly the amount of light...then of course the humidity. The water is not a big problem. Spiders do not like too much water but they need the humidity and that is why the GH plants do so well. I do not water them that much but there is always water sitting around in some of the flats what bring on the humidity.
I never thought I would say this, but I am getting tired of stressing out over plants of any kind. I guess old age is really setting in.