I try to remember to do a little thing every day, simply step outside and say "whatever I want" to the wide open air. Not profound observations, the literal words, "whatever I want." First, to remind myself to appreciate being able to do it, and because it feels like there might soon come a time when that will be some kind of crime.
Defending that freedom for myself, as vigorously as that which is the right of the person saying the most nasty, vile stuff that I don't want to hear, from any threat to it is definitely important to me, and a priority for me.
There are too many people around lately who think people should not be able to say whatever they want. One would be too many and there are a lot more than that.
What I really don't understand is people who give everyone else the power to "offend" them. Ask yourself, if I didn't know what was said, would it affect me in any way? If the answer is no, why bother to care? Being concerned in that case is a conscious decision actively made to be upset. I don't understand making that choice, vs. not caring and going on with myself, unaffected.
We can't control what other people do, only how we choose to react or internalize. Trying to get other people to change themselves so you can feel better seems like a pointless thing to do to me, and so unlikely to manifest. I say, find something to do and you won't even have time to care about what other people are thinking or doing.