I don't think Wisteria or Clematis are evergreen in NY, but either should grow back each spring. There are different types of Clematis, so check that before you buy to make sure it's the kind you wanted to have. Some never need pruning, some should be pruned annually.
Don't think Gina's lovely suggestions are hardy up there at all.
Annual vines give you the peace of mind of knowing they can't take over and tear up your support, or ruin your house. Morning glories, moonflower, hyacinth bean vine, Rex Begonia vine, sweet potato, Mandevilla, are all great vines to use as annuals. If you don't want re-seeding, don't get Grandpa Ott morning glories. I've never had any volunteers from other kinds, when grown where they are not hardy.