It's not a "you are right, I am wrong" dichotomy. That's not even valid, and it's not what I meant for you to "get". You must think I am very stuck up.
I am sorry to have been so blunt, and I don't know why you would be sorry you posted. It's all a learning process, and all your questions seem to revolve around the point that I tried (apparently unsuccessfully) to convey. Perhaps someone else can explain more easily. While I will not apologize for the facts I present, I do concede my social skills that render them are often lacking. By your terse response, it's clear I have failed. I didn't mean to offend you, and I'll try to stay out of you way from now on.