Patience is something I do have, but when you have lots of stuff going on (lots of different lilies and different kinds of plants), I am really not "waiting". I am to the point now that sometimes when something blooms, I've forgotten I still had it!
By the way, the white one is NOT a Lilium martagon album. It is a hybrid that happens to be white.
Regarding the spruce mites, I have heard of, but not seen them. My neighbor's spruces are Colorado spruce that by definition are intolerant of shade. For a long time, I kept my Korean Euodia tree trimmed away from them because I knew they wouldn't tolerate the shade, but as they grew into my "air space" and shaded my lily box more and more, I said to heck with that! So now the Colorado spruces (and my box) are lightly shaded by the Korean Euodia, and the spruces branches - not the whole trees - are dying.